A Heart Warmer for You
He was handsome,
had impeccable manners and his superior intelligence became obvious to anyone
who met him. Both men and women admired him and he had a soft spot in his heart
for children. If he had been human he probably would have been in the
diplomatic corps, because he had a natural ability to melt people’s
hearts.
He was known as Raffon and he came into Paul Hemming’s
life when he was a five-month-old weanling Arabian colt. Since boyhood, Paul
had dreamt of owning a truly fine horse. As he read and re-read The Black Stallion and other Walter
Farley novels about Arabian horses, he swore to himself that some day… some
day. But time flew by, and Paul was
grown and married with young sons, when the longing could no longer be denied.
Thus began a series of events that would change the lives of the Hemming
family, as if they had caught the tail of a passing tornado.
“I really
didn’t know anything about horses,” said Paul, “but the
moment we saw this young yearling at an Arabian breeder’s farm, we were
struck by his presence.” The price was more than they could afford and
when they went back to see him again the owner had decided to keep him. Deeply
disappointed, Paul had a deep feeling in his gut that this young horse was
meant to be his. After prolonged discussions and a promise that Raffon would be shown, a bill of sale was drawn up.
He may not have
known anything about horses but he did know that they needed exercise. So
everyday, he would take Raffon on a long rope, for a
romp down the country lanes where they lived near
Mark Hemming, the
oldest of the six Hemming sons, remembers it well: “My father worked hard
but we really didn’t have any money. We had four boys in a one-bedroom
house. Three of us slept on a roll-away in the living room. When the time came
to honor our promise to Raffon’s breeder, we
put plywood sides on our pick-up truck and arrived at the shows and parked
beside the other breeders with fancy horse trailers. In the ring, we had no
clue of what to do and the steward had to show my dad how to lead our horse
around the show ring and set him up. Some people felt sorry for us and tried to
help us learn the ropes but others laughed at us. We were showing against some
big breeding farms.”
There was no doubt
in Raffon’s mind that he was a champion. He
began winning his halter classes against stiff competition at local shows.
“He was a natural in the show ring,” said Paul. “I was just
along for the ride, he really showed himself. Proud and animated, he took in
everything and was very aware of the judges.” The judges were certainly aware of him.
The laughing ceased.
Raffon was still not broken to ride but the boys
would climb on his back at home and the handsome young stallion would walk
carefully around with his precious cargo.
Then financial
disaster struck. Their financial income vanished and the Hemming family, which
had now expanded to six boys, had to give up the little house. When word got
around, offers to buy Raffon arrived almost daily
(one from Daniel Gainey Sr.). This was the obvious
solution. It would pull them out of
their hole and give the family a fresh start.
“We were
deeply aware that he was part of our family,” says Paul. “When you
talked to him, he absolutely understood you. It would be like selling one of my
sons.”
Mark agrees,
saying, “He wasn’t just a horse. It was as if he were
one of our siblings and we loved him like that.” Selling the stallion was
out of the question.
Raffon repaid the Hemming’s
love and faith in him. As a two-year-old he had become a champion and when he
was three he actually qualified for the Arabian Horse Nationals in
When the Nationals
came around the following year they were in
“We were
standing in the ring with 53 fine stallions and I was hoping we could at least
make it into the top ten. They asked us to leave the ring. Then they started
calling the numbers of those that placed. As they reached the very end, Raffon’s number was finally called. “Relief
flooded Paul’s veins; they had actually placed in the Nationals! Then
people were shouting at him, “You won! You won!” The electrified stallion entered the
ring, to thunderous applause as the judges named him the National Champion
Arabian Stallion.”
Paul returned home
to his family with a heart full of joy and fifteen dollars in his pocket. But so many requests for breeding came
in, that the family finally decided to move to
At age 22, the
famous Raffon still had all the fire of a yearling
and if turned loose in a ring in front of a crowd, he could put quite a show.
Responding to the cheering from the crowd, he would circle the ring and then
gallop to the center with nostrils flared and head held high, his full black
tail flowing like a silken cape behind him. Rising on his hind legs he would
perform a full cabriole, the most difficult maneuver of Haute Ecole of the
This magical horse
fulfilled every dream his family ever had for him. He was loved and treasured
to the end of his days. When he died, he was mourned as if one of the family
members had passed on and to this day, the subject can bring tears to their
eyes. Raffon is now buried under a beautiful tree on
their ranch with a bronze marker inscribed “Precious memories endure
forever.” He is still in the heart of his family.
Horse of the Month
The Horse of the Month
for July is Elan! He’s a gorgeous black
Friesian gelding, owned by Stephan and Amity de Fontaine of Santa Ynez. “Elan has a calm and loving disposition and loves
children,” says Amity. “In fact, he will sometimes even leave his
feed to go and watch the children playing. There’s something special
about him, like he’s an old soul.”