Young Love

Hoof Beats with Pat Murphy

 

Young Love

 

    Cindy McClellan is a dazzling blonde with a glowing tan and an air of having found her right place in the world. She is dedicated to helping young people find lasting friendships with horses. So each weekday, one can find Cindy at Seven Oaks Ranch on Roblar, helping kids groom their horses, saddle up and learn to ride. Things are well organized here, with safety and clean-up rules posted on the barn wall, near the cross ties. One of them proclaims: “All food supplements must be kept in plastic containers with secure lids. Let the mice and squirrels fend for themselves”

 

      The riding class circles the ring at a walk, then at a signal, little heels press the sides of the horses and they break into a trot. Little bodies respond by posting nicely, as they have been taught. Some of the kids are really small, the youngest is six-years-old.  And when they are mounted on a big one thousand pound horse they look like mice on an elephant. But these horses have been carefully hand-picked by Cindy and, somehow, as you observe these horses at work, a gentle, even loving demeanor emanates from them. They have kind, luminous eyes and careful movements (even when they are cantering) that show you they’re aware of their precious cargos.

 

     “The kids love the horses and the horses love them,” says Cindy. “They’re happy horses. They’re not overworked, they are groomed once or twice a day, they’re fed well and they get petted a lot. They’re good at taking care of little kids.

 

     “When someone brings me a horse to evaluate for use as a school horse, I can almost tell within five minutes what they are really like. Do they tie well and stand quietly? Do they willingly bridle up and will they neck rein? I evaluate their gaits and take them out on the trail to see how they react to distractions. I like older horses too.”

 

     Cindy has a long history with horses. “My sister, Vicki, and I were horse crazy kids,” she tells me. “At seven and eight years of age we hung out at Cece Thorsen’s nearby training stable in Santa Barbara and soaked up all the knowledge and experience with horses that came our way. I can certainly say that it kept us busy and out of trouble as teenagers, the horses were our best friends.”

 

     The noted trainers Doug Ingersoll and Tim Whitney were also mentors and hired the girls to exercise horses and help with clients.  They ended up taking lessons from and/ or working with almost every trainer in the Valley, in order to gain as much experience as possible. Skip Shalhoob taught them how to drive trucks and trailers and buy and sell horses When Cindy was nineteen, the two sisters went out on their own and opened a stable called Present Ranch for boarding and training.

 

     After marrying and moving to the Valley, Cindy got into western riding and giving lessons. How busy is she? There are the riding lessons every weekday and then on weekends there is junior rodeo with her daughter or with her high school rodeo students. Now after thirteen years, there are sixty students in the Little Big Riding School.  Cindy hires three assistants to help with the riding groups also. If there seems to be plethora of girls taking riding lessons, it may be because the boys gravitate to Rodeo Camp. At six and seven, boys are fascinated with not only learning to ride, but being able to swing a rope, goat tying, and other Jr. Rodeo riding skills.

 

     Other big attractions are the horse day camps. There are spring and winter camps, and the summer camps take place in July.  There are twenty kids in each of the five camps, between the ages of six to fifteen and they are kept busy with all kinds of unique and imaginative activities.  For instance, small groups of students will be assigned a horse and they must compete in a horse decorating contest. Yes, really! They must fully decorate a live horse. Every camp has a theme that is carried out with the decorations. In the past, horses have emerged as walking pizzas, Italian dinner tables, Christmas presents or rodeo clowns. A beach theme has inspired beach umbrellas planted atop an equine back and painted ocean waves breaking over the horse’s flanks!

 

     Then there are the trail rides where the kids sleep over night on a ranch belonging to Harlan Burchardi. They can enjoy sitting around the campfire in the evening, singing and telling stories. Just to make sure that the kids never forget the happy times they have with their horses at the Little Big Riding School, they take home photos framed in a horseshoe. Chances are these become treasured possessions for many years to come.

 

     “Are there challenges in working so hard with young children?” I ask.  “Well, luckily I’m naturally very patient, “Cindy says in her gentle voice. “ I go over things until I’m sure they understand. Sometimes, I show them by putting my hands over their little hands on the reins and show them that way. Sometimes they are afraid because they have fallen off a horse when they were riding before they came to me. I want them to be able to trust me and my carefully chosen horses and we have drills to improve balance because that is usually the reason that one might fall. But if that ever happens, my horses just stop and wait for them to get back on. So I slow the kids down and build their confidence.

 

     “It’s interesting to see how a child’s confidence and self-esteem grows as their riding skills grow. So I give plenty of praise and affection. We talk easily together and sometimes they tell me things that they don’t even tell their parents. I had one little girl come to me and say how much she wished her father would come and watch her ride sometime.  I said, ‘Have you ever asked him to come?’ and she said ‘No, because he’s always so busy, he even works when we are eating dinner. He’s just always on the phone.’

 

     “I urged her to tell him how she felt and about two weeks later here he comes! A beaming father stood by the arena, watching his daughter proudly ride her horse.”